Why Hosts Struggle with Direct Bookings—and How to Fix It with Strategy, Mindset & Obsession with Emanuele Pani
“Most people never let a goal become an obsession. They have an idea, it becomes a want, and when the first plan doesn’t work, they abandon it instead of adjusting the plan.” Emanuele Pani, known as “E” in the short-term rental community, is the co-host of the STR Secrets Podcast and a coach specializing in co-hosting and boutique hotels. He shared how shifting his mindset allowed him to build a highly successful direct booking strategy. While many hosts rely on Airbnb and other OTAs, E emphasized that true financial freedom comes from owning your own booking channels. The key? Building long-term relationships and serving others first. His philosophy? Your mindset dictates your success, and achieving financial growth starts with internal transformation. Summary and Highlights Why Most Hosts Struggle with Direct Bookings Many hosts fail to scale their direct booking efforts because they get stuck in cycles of hesitation, fear, and inconsistency. The biggest challenges include: Fixing the Direct Booking Struggle: Mindset, Strategy & Execution 1. The Power of Obsession Hosts who win at direct bookings don’t just try—they commit fully. Our guest emphasizes that obsession is the fuel that drives success. The most successful hosts are relentless in testing, iterating, and learning. They don’t let setbacks define them; they adjust and push forward. Takeaway: Stop treating direct bookings as an optional side project. Make it your primary focus, refine your approach, and stay committed. 2. Build Strong Partnerships One game-changing strategy is partnering with real estate agents and local businesses. Agents have a constant stream of clients needing temporary stays—buyers waiting for a home, sellers in transition, or investors exploring the market. Takeaway: Develop relationships with real estate professionals and position your rentals as their go-to solution for housing needs. 3. Set Higher Standards for Your Business Many hosts settle for whatever bookings come their way, rather than actively shaping their guest pipeline. The key is setting standards: “People get stuck because they set a goal, hit an obstacle, and then change the goal instead of adjusting the plan.” Takeaway: If you want to see different results, you need to change how you think, act, and set expectations for your business. 4. Consistency Wins—Automation & Marketing Matter Direct bookings don’t happen overnight. A clear, repeatable strategy is necessary. Takeaway: Treat direct bookings like a long-term investment. Small, consistent actions compound over time. Ready to Elevate Your Direct Bookings? 🚀 CraftedStays—the all-in-one direct booking platform built for professional hosts. Create a high-converting website, optimize for SEO, and leverage automation to maximize revenue. Follow E Here ⤵️ Transcription E: The biggest epidemic we have as a country is we don’t know how to make decisions, right? We have an idea, the idea becomes a want, the want becomes a goal, but then the moment the goal doesn’t go to plan, instead of going to plan B but still pursuing the same goal, we go back to idea, and we go back to want, and then we go into a new goal. E: And so we never let a goal become an obsession. Every time anybody that has listened to this, and it’s true for me, it’s probably true for you as well, anytime I’ve become obsessed with anything, I have it. Gil: Hey folks on today’s show. I have Emanuele Pani. You might know of him from the STR secrets podcast. I had a chance to be on his show a little while ago and I had a blast talking to him and I’m finding out that he’s actually pretty deep in the mindset game. Um, and he’s attributed a lot of his own personal growth and the growth of a lot of his mentees really around mindset. Gil: So I’m thrilled to bring him onto the show. This is a dense show. It’s a bit different than some of the other episodes that we’ve had on our show, but. I’ve actually quite enjoy it because at least for me, I’ve grew a lot through the years through really tuning in and understanding my mindset. So I thought it was super important for, uh, E to join the show and really talk about how he thinks about things, how he coaches folks through mindset, why he thinks it’s important in the first place. Gil: So without further ado, let’s bring him on. E: Yeah, man. Thank you so much for having me on. It’s been, uh, it’s been a long time coming. And I remember having a blast when you came on our show. And so I’m super excited to, uh, be here with your people now. Gil: Yeah, I’ve been wanting you on my show for a little while now. It’s been hard to get time on your busy calendar. Um, but I’m glad you’re here. Um, one of the main reasons and we’ll, we’ll get into this, but like I, out of like the space, I think there’s, there’s a lot of folks more recently that Is being aware of your mindset and how, how much of a contribution that has towards your growth. Gil: So definitely want to kind of dive into that deeper into the show. And I know you’ve done quite well on the direct booking side. So for you to share some of those as well too, but maybe to kick us off, I’m sure a lot of folks may have heard your voice before, maybe they’re thinking, did they log onto the wrong podcast, but do you mind giving a brief introduction to who you are? E: Yeah, I would love that. So my name is Emanuele Pani. I go by E. I was born and raised in Sardinia, Italy, but I’ve been in the States now for the better part of the last 15, 16 years. And the short term rental community knows me as the co host of the STR secret podcast. And I also have the honor and privilege of being one of the coaches within our community STR secret. E: Uh, we coach people on co hosting and we coach people on boutique