Building an Authentic Personal Brand That Converts Guests into Loyal Bookers with Amber Hurdle
“Your brand is the emotional connection that an organization has with its public.” In this episode of the Booked Solid Show, Gil sits down with Amber Hurdle—brand strategist, keynote speaker, author, and former Gaylord Hotels executive—to explore why personal branding isn’t just for influencers. It’s the foundation of trust that converts lookers into bookers. Amber breaks down how short-term rental hosts and property managers can leverage psychology and neuroscience to build authentic brands that attract ideal guests, command premium rates, and create lasting loyalty. From her celebrity event planning days with Sony Music and Jessica Simpson to leading the internal rebrand when Marriott acquired the world’s largest hotel property, Amber brings decades of hospitality expertise to help you stop hiding behind a logo and start building a business that books direct. Whether you manage two properties or two hundred, this conversation will shift how you think about showing up for your guests—and why it matters more than ever. Podcast Summary and Highlights 👤 Meet Amber Hurdle Amber Hurdle is a globally recognized brand strategist, multi-award-winning keynote speaker, and author of The Bombshell Business Woman. She brings over two decades of experience helping Fortune 100 companies, celebrities, and entrepreneurs build brands that connect deeply and drive measurable results. Her hospitality credentials run deep. Amber spent years at Gaylord Hotels overseeing internal communications and employee engagement—ensuring staff felt valued so they could deliver exceptional guest experiences. She later led the internal rebrand when Marriott acquired Gaylord Opryland, which remains the largest Marriott property in the world. Today, Amber runs Brand Edge Accelerator and the Vanguard Council, working with founders and executives to build personal brands grounded in psychology, neuroscience, and authenticity. She’s been featured in Entrepreneur, Fortune, and Bloomberg Businessweek, and recognized as one of the top 30 brand professionals globally by Global Gurus. Connect with Amber: 🎯 Why Personal Branding Matters for Direct Bookings Most hosts think branding is about logos and color palettes. Amber sees it differently. A brand is the emotional connection your business creates with everyone who encounters it—guests, community members, even local government officials dealing with short-term rental regulations. When you build a direct booking website, you’re asking strangers to trust you with thousands of dollars and their vacation memories. Unlike Airbnb, which provides trust signals, your direct booking site must earn that trust from scratch. The hosts who succeed at direct bookings share something in common: they put themselves out there. They show their faces, share their stories, and communicate their values consistently across every touchpoint. 🪝 The Fishing Analogy That Changes Everything Amber explains positioning through a fishing metaphor that every host should memorize. If you want to catch a catfish, you don’t take a boat to the ocean with squid as bait. You find a murky pond, use something like chicken liver, drop your line, and wait. Knowing your lure and your body of water is essential. For vacation rental operators, this means understanding exactly who your ideal guest is before creating any marketing. Your brand promise answers three questions: What do you do? Who do you do it for? How do you do it uniquely? The “who” tells you what body of water you’re fishing in. The “how” becomes your lure. Without this clarity, you’re marketing to everyone and connecting with no one—the same trap that keeps many hosts stuck on the OTA treadmill. 📸 Why Your Face Matters More Than Your Logo Gil shared data from CraftedStays showing that websites with host photos and personal bios convert significantly better than those hiding behind company logos or property images. The psychology behind this is simple. Vacation rentals aren’t hotels. Guests want to feel they’re staying in a home, welcomed by a real person. Your prefrontal cortex—the part of the brain that makes values-based decisions—responds to human faces. It’s why putting a personal picture on your direct booking site isn’t vanity; it’s conversion optimization. CraftedStays now makes the host bio and photo a mandatory field during onboarding because the data proves it works. When guests see who they’re booking with, trust forms faster. 🏆 Case Studies: Hosts Who Built Brands on Their Backs Amber highlighted two examples of vacation rental operators who understood personal branding before it became trendy. Lance and Elaine Stitcher of Seaside Vacation Rentals built their company’s visibility through their own presence—appearing on podcasts, serving on the VRMA board, posting consistently on social media. When industry awards come around, voters already know them because they’ve shown up repeatedly over time. Robin Craig with Moving Mountains in Colorado followed a similar path. His visibility in advocacy and industry events helped position his company as the number one luxury vacation rental brand in Colorado according to Forbes. Neither started with sophisticated marketing budgets. They started with authenticity, consistency, and a willingness to be the face of their brand. 🛋️ Setting the Table for Your Guests Amber offered a hospitality metaphor that every host should remember. Think of your direct booking website as your home. You wouldn’t invite guests over without knowing their preferences, preparing thoughtfully, and creating a welcoming environment. Yet many hosts bury important information, make booking harder than necessary, or—the cardinal sin—charge more on their direct booking site than on Airbnb. If you expect guests to trust you with their vacation, show them you’ve prepared for their arrival from the very first click. This means clear pricing, easy navigation, mobile-friendly design, and content that speaks directly to your ideal guest’s needs. Everything on your site should signal that you understand who they are and why they’re traveling—the foundation of any strong email marketing strategy that turns one-time guests into repeat bookers. ✨ Different Is Better Than Better Sally Hogshead, one of Amber’s mentors and a two-time New York Times bestselling author, has a mantra that applies perfectly to vacation rental marketing: “Different is better than better.” The secret to success isn’t trying to out-Airbnb Airbnb. It’s becoming more of who you already are. When you lean into your authentic values,










